Moving between two countries can present unique challenges, especially when it involves children at different stages of their lives. Andrew Jernigan shares his experiences of relocating multiple times between the United States and Brazil over 24 years. Initially moving to Brazil for marriage, he highlights how moving with young children differs significantly from moving with teenagers. The family’s decision-making process evolved as they considered factors like education, safety, and cultural exposure.
Adjustments for Younger Children: Cultural Immersion and Cost Benefits
The Jernigan family initially moved to Brazil in 2000, primarily for personal reasons, including marriage. During these early relocations, the couple had younger children who easily adapted to the new environment. Living in Brazil offered them a chance to immerse their kids in Brazilian culture, learn Portuguese, and experience diverse traditions. The lower cost of living allowed the family to enjoy more activities and travel within the country.
During this period, the children attended local schools, quickly picking up the language and forming friendships. The family took advantage of Brazil’s natural beauty, frequently visiting mountains and beaches. They felt a strong sense of belonging and even contemplated staying indefinitely. This phase was marked by positive experiences and a deep connection to Brazilian life, making it an ideal time for cultural exploration and family bonding.
Challenges with Teenagers: Education and Safety Concerns
When the Jernigans returned to Brazil in 2019, their children were teenagers, which introduced new challenges. The family had to prioritize higher education opportunities and safety concerns. Since the local schools did not offer programs aligned with American or British universities, the parents enrolled their kids in private international schools. While these institutions provided excellent education and exposure to expatriate communities, they came with high costs and limited extracurricular options.
Safety became a significant concern for the family. In contrast to the US, where teenagers enjoy more independence, the parents in Brazil had to be vigilant about their children’s whereabouts due to potential risks such as theft and kidnapping. The lack of familiar comforts like favorite foods and extended family also made the transition harder. Ultimately, the family decided to return to the US in 2021 to support their children’s educational and social needs, despite missing the vibrant Brazilian lifestyle.